Right now, I am working with my fear as a guiding light and I am trying to stop avoiding things just because I’m scared or worried, I am trying to understand that the only way to be in control of my own life is to stop trying to control every outcome by worrying and obsessing about it – and to understand that the perfect state is to stop trying to be perfect all the time! Ah, the wonderful paradoxes of life!
MIA MAKILA 
So what is “perfect” anyway? Nothing is perfect, so aspiring to perfection is an impossible endeavor. As I have aged, I have learned (and it took me a good while to learn this) to say, “just fvck it!”
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I think it’s whatever we feel that we CAN be if we really made an effort or it is whatever make us feel like then we really deserve to be loved and admired because we are feeling unworthy in the present state, or perhaps it’s where we compensate the places in which we felt our parents had conditions in their love when we were children, so we try to please them with being whatever they wanted us to be, because then we get their love and approval.
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But yeah.. just fuck it! 🙂
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